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            Continued From Page 6 “Day”                           but he still insisted. In end, I told him that I have
            joke with me by throwing coke over me but in          no problems only if my parents approach to
            seconds I realised it was something else              this. He told his family and then the boy’s father
            because my face and neck was burning                  came over to my house for this to which my dad
            ..................... I pulled the scarf of the boy and   didn’t agree upon. But still since the boy wanted
            asked ... Jolly what the hell did you do ?????.       to be in touch, we decided to end up being
            He just ran away and I started shouting ..... and     good friends so that he could at least know how
            my boss who was still over the phone heard me         was I doing in life?. But when he came to know
            shouting. His house was not far away from             that I had applied for job overseas, he could
            office, so he within seconds came back to             possibly not take this thought and decided that
            office. Mean time I left my shawl there and           he would do something to me that would make
            rushed towards the toilet where I tried my best       me live for him for always. But he never
            to pour as much as possible water over me. I          realized that his obsessions would ruin  my life.
            was crying and seeing my skin burning and             He was put behind bars.
            blooming. I could see my cardigan and then my
            shirt getting burnt  and the skin on my left arm      Life goes on and I had to fight for my parents
            getting burnt.                                        and my younger brother. I decided to study
                                                                  further. I joined a Post Graduate course in Hotel
            Meanwhile my dad was also there. He could             Management in Switzerland and went there. I
            see my shawl left on the floor and was shocked        still needed doctors and thanks to the wonderful
            for it. He came in the office and shouted for me.     help and guidance of my school authorities. I
            My boss hurriedly told him nothing and asked to       underwent another two surgeries in
            be in car and wrapped in a cloth and took me to       Switzerland. I am now living in UK, since I
            hospital. My father is physically handicapped,        believe I have a long battle to win. I am still
            (because of a rod in  his leg) . My dad just kept     undergoing steroid injections on my face, which
            driving the car, anxious enough to see what had       is pain in themselves. I decided to fight for my
            happened to me.                                       parents. I just couldn’t be in India and could
                                                                  have ever fought for myself against the society.
            My boss took me out of the car in the hospital        So the best I could thin, I have done. My face
            and immediately hurried me to ICU. the doctors        still reflects of what I have gone through but
            and nurses in the hospital were very known to         with each passing day, my determination is
            my father and my boss. My boss's wife was a           getting more and more and the will to fight is
            permanent staff member of the hospital and my         increasing.
            dad being in pharmaceutical business had very
            close and friendly relations with the doctors of
            the hospital.

            I was hospitalized in two different hospitals for
            over a period of 7 months. Where I had three
            surgeries. I was completely burnt on the left
            side of my face, the upper part of my left hand,
            my left side of back and my left arm.  Those
            seven months were the greatest trouble of me
            and especially the day when I saw mirror, I was
            torn apart. I could not believe myself.


            The boy who did all this was actually a student
            of NIIT, who claimed to be in love with me. HE
            did decently approach me for marriage.
            Because of difference in cultures and religion, I
            calmly explained him that it was not possible,
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